Sagittarius man and Gemini Woman. what went wrong?

topic posted Mon, October 5, 2009 - 10:44 PM by  Kevin
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i am Sagg man. my moon is in picses, and have scorpio in venus, aquarius rising. i was in a serious relationship for 5 and a half years with a Gemini girl. i know we were reciprocals, and in many ways it was the best times of my life. the truest love i have ever felt, and had returned. great sex. we had incompatibilities but overall we were peas in a pod. but in the end she left me suddenly and pretty coldly. i was away for a while and one day i called her to say hi, and she informed me that she wouldnt be living with me anymore. we talked and she claimed she had been unhappy for a while, although she never expressed this to me before. there was nothing i could say to change her mind. although she said it was a really hard decision to make, but she went through with it . i searched myself and my past with her looking for any wrong i had done her. but i was so sweet and loving. there was nothing i wouldnt do for her. she wanted for nothing, and had a down soulmate, that was really there for her. and my scorpio in venus helped me be protective, and a good provider and caretaker. it completely broke my heart that she took me for granted and i never felt like it was justified that she broke up with me at all. since then she doesnt call, or hang out. she doesnt seem to want to be friends, and she seems to be just moving on, never looking back. after 5 years, to not have any need for any connection with someone so loving and such a part of her life is just the worst. is this how Geminis are? does anyone have any thoughts on this?
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Kevin
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  • because gemini women are selfish and the definition of self-indulgent .
    i'd say mars/moon in gemini also ...
    they do whatever they want and don't really care how it hurts someone else .
    that's just my 2 cents anyway .
    • Good point. i think youre right. anyone else have any views on this?
      • Bob
        Bob
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        It kinda depends on the Gemini (my mother and one sister are, as other women in my life) but if all you're getting from a Gemini is "it's great!", then there's probably something stewing on the flip side. As a friend of mine says, "The brighter the bright, the darker the shadow."

        In other words, the better a Gemini has it, the worse they feel. Get it? By giving her everything she wanted, you made the other part of her miserable.

        It's all about the two faces. If you only ever see one side of a Gemini, you're only getting the half of it. And they are very adept at only showing one side until they can't hold the other back.
        • Amazing then that they are supposed to be our best match. i felt the deep connection with her, but they couldnt be more different from a Sagittarius.
          • deep connections are about the moment and subjective,,,the above posts are insightful,,,
            gems and sags are similar in that if you never tell either one you love them then they will
            either stick around cause they will wait for those words so it gives them an excuse to leave,,,
            or they feel a relief cause when one person says I love you to another, usually theres an
            obligation for the other to repeat those words, then it all becomes a needy relation,,,who wants that,
            except a needy person,,,say i love you thru your actions and give space,,,

            also when someone puts someone else on a pedastal, then the sex is great for a while
            but then the person on the pedastel feels like they are a fraud and don't want to have to
            live up to something that is impossible,,

            ,what went wrong, who knows, we weren't there,
            and astrology compares charts but its the emotional intangibles that keep a relation going,,,
            besides every relation has an expiration date,,,enjoy it while you can and while its around,,,

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