What's With Virgos?

why is that? is it their critisism and detail nitpicking that drives you mad? the attraction might be because youre mutable signs. aries is a cardinal sign. but cardinal signs like aries and cancer dont go to well together even though there is attraction between the signs. so for sags and virgos, it might be the mutable thing that get you attracted to each other.

I get along with Virgos up to a point. I am not usually attracted physically though, so that gives me a sense of control. I had one Virgo friend who I used to answer in a whiny voice "Just shut uuuuuuppp!!!!!!!!" or "who cares?????" "yeah, whatever" to the nit picky comments. Otherwise I like having conversations with them, I like where their logic goes.

The only MALE sage, JJ...... ???????


Dude-!

lol

I think the mutable saggie in me thinks there "must be something we have in common" when I meet a Virgo. And we do -- I have three planets conjunct in Virgo and can pick the fly speck out of pepper at 50 paces. It's just that, being a Sag/Leo rising I don't WANT to. I EXPECT them to be hypochondriacs, and to pick apart every detail of my personality that they are trying to deny in themselves. That way they don't dissapoint. Dear ol' dad is a Virgo, so as far as the attraction goes, I know to step-away-from-the-loaded-gun.

But they also have good analytical minds, and if you can get one to focus on your project they can often see a detail we Saggies have rushed right over. The trick is just being able to take that critique without getting/hearing a lot of personal criticism!

I just worked the Eugene Glass School "Flame-Off" event (competitive glass blowing) and found several of the best lampworkers are Virgos because they are great at detail. But the fire signs were the ones who were TRULY in their element, cranking up the flames and having a BLAST!

"Always a steamy initial contact or heavy crush followed by later realization that we are so damn incompetible we shouldn't be even be withing the same circle of friends."

Yes! My two biggest (most passionate/heartbreaking) crushes have been on Virgos, where they had an obvious attraction to me as well, but it just never worked out--we never got together. Then, as you said, I realized how impossibly different we are, anyway.

I didn't realize it was typical of Sags though (to have these attractions to Virgos). I thought maybe it was because I was Virgo rising.

I assumed that Sag being square to Virgo and all, it would negate any attraction between most Sags and Virgos, and so I thought I was an anomaly... but I guess the square just creates some sexy sexual tension that, in the end, doesn't pan out.



p.s. today i came in contact with a guy who I'm *positive" is a Virgo... and yes, bingo, this odd instantaneous attraction. (I asked the Tarot later if I was right--and pulled the Knight of Pentacles... which, if you read Tarot, is like the card that means "Virgo heartthrob). I dunno... Virgos can be nit-picky and grumpy and whatnot, but even so, they're really hot to me, and I have this feeling that they would be very comforting lovers. :)

Maybe he's learned to sort of tame some of the negative Virgo energy that puts people off?

There *has* to be some placement of aspect in his chart, though, too... something that counteracts his "virgo"-ness.

why is the sag/virgo attraction so strong, but not the pisces/sag attraction... if the squaring of the signs has something to do with it?

I am still curious about the initial, immediate physical attraction thing, tho....


TIME after TIME.., when i get that internal lighting bolt of "MUST SLEEP WITH YOU" - i often find out afterward that they are a Virgo.......freaks me out a bit......

The one relationship i actually had with one- that did last for 5 1/2 rocky, unhealthy years (over 10 years ago...), there's still residue left in my heart (not ALL of it bad,mind u- the good were some of my best ever)......

yeah totally its fascinating how the gears are always turning in their minds, always thinking...and often cool shit. but then sometimes im like wow i wish i could turn the gears off for a little while so (i am thinking of someone in particular hehe) he can just relax for a while.
and i have found myself saying, i dont wanna know what you think, what do you feeeel?

sigh

i recently discovered in my trusty ole copy of linda goodmans love signs that virgos and sags are a 4-10 sun sign vibration. like pisces and sag. which means there is always tension. that explains while i sometimes feel the same kinda tension and frustrations as i have with the fishes.
sigh.

AMEN- to that...!!! Luv the ability to 'release' them sexually....they respond very well... But after the session- they go right back to the furrowed brows and hyper critical-lity again.....

An astrology book i once read described them as feeling like thunder stikes when they meet us... but kinda not in a great way exactly......

lol

My Virgo wound up being on my Top 2 lit of all time- but the relationship wasnt particularly healthy or steady for either of us... of course i WAS much less stable and mellowed out than i am now... we're talking my mid20's.....

like i should be help accountable for anything before 35.................... lol