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O.k. I resently started talking to this sagittarius guy. We went out and I thought everything went great but the next day he sent me an email that said I'm not what he was looking for anyway we are still talking and he says I sent up to many red flags but when I ask what he means he won't tell me. He says his afraid I will think his a jerk. I sent him an email telling him that I would not be judgemental but i still don't know if he will tell me whats wrong. I even tried to make it seem like I was this wild girl but he sent me an email today and said he liked a tame woman. what ever that means. Now I just feel stupid for making him think I am wild. I don't know what I am doing wrong someone please help me.
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Re: I need help with my sag
Thu, May 28, 2009 - 3:08 AMHis moon and venus placments will tell you what he is most likely looking for in a woman.
However, might I suggest casting your net back out into the sea? There are plenty of fish out there and this one has already told you that he is not taking the bait.
If you can not let go that easily, continue to talk to him, but don't shoot down the attention of others. Sags are renowned for being quite a friendly bunch so if he's you've given him no reason to be coarse w/ you he will continue to be cordial. As a word of advice don't mistake his kindness for romantic interest.
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Re: I need help with my sag
Sat, June 20, 2009 - 12:44 AMSag are known for their honesty even when it gives them a foot-taste in their mouth.
I would tell him that you appreciate that he was up front and did not waster either of your time and that you will be glad to be 'friends only'
and leave it there. Then let him call YOU.
I know you like him, but he will loose respect for you if you don't take him at his word.
You can be his friend and after he sees other qualities you have he might change his mind, but what ever you do, dont try to manipulate him or chase him....
he will see right through you, loose resepct for you and probably disappear all together.
Also, he will never even *consider* dating you seriously if he cant respect you so just keep him as a friend
and move on to other fish...there are plentyof fish!! good luck