what kristen said below about being blunt is right. however, what i said is also right. if i were you, i might try just very casually telling him that you really like him...don't make a big emotional production of it...and after it's said and done, go on about your business...don't obsess about spending time with him...offer casually to make some plans...or wait for him to do so...just tell him how you feel, and make yourself scarce. don't avoid him, just make your self scarce by living your own life.

my sag appreciates the freedom i give him as well as the affirmations that i think he is great. i've found the key is to generally keep it lighthearted. i can enjoy the time that i spend away from him because it gives me a chance to daydream about how great he is (i'm a pisces) and when we come together, we just have so much fun.

sagges are about fun...across the board, i don't know. but it's been my experience and i have also picked that up from reading things about sag on this tribe.

can you elaborate more when you say you are trying to work things out? how are things in general?

good luck!

oh yeah, and if he feels indebted to you...there is nothing wrong with that...he probably likes you and appreciates what you do for him. sagittarians are very appreciate and as was said above, love to return kindness.

thanks... things seem to be doing ok after that talk, and i drove myself crazy until the next morning when i had rested and calmed down a little and thought about things that were said, and it really wasnt bad actually. i had just freaked out and let my fears take over for a minute... we'll see...

i can already tell he is someone i could never forget. :)

thanks for all your advice and virgoisms... really! i hope i was able to help somehow too!
we are in the same boat, but like, reversed... hehe

i dunno what else to say in regards to your sag fellow. unfortunately the sag boys can be quite the flirt...
you said you want to be friends with him, you thought you were... but now youre not? has he been avoiding you? i think i remember you mentioning that he knew you liked him because people at work had told him. if hes being really distant but not totally avoiding you... maybe he feels awkward or something if he just wants to be friends and thinks you want more...
i bet if you back off again he will come back again, and then you can play it cool and kinda show him somehow that you want to be friends...or find a way to work it into a conversation...?

a sag i dated, that i worked with too actually was like that. after we broke up we tried to remain friends and sometimes it was hard for me.and it was crazy- if i started to ignore him, he came to me and wanted my attention, but if i started to give too much attention again, he would ignore me again..

dating and love is never easy is it hehe. arg!

:)
good luck to you :) and thanks again too!