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are we heartbreakers?

topic posted Mon, May 5, 2008 - 7:05 PM by  Bixie
friends have been asking me what's up with us sags cuz we are heartbreakers.
are we heartbreakers in the first place?
if we are, why? or why do they think we are?
help me contemplate on this.
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  • synerGy
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    Re: are we heartbreakers?

    Mon, May 5, 2008 - 7:15 PM
    too selfish
    too self indulgent
    incapable of fully embracing domesticity and couple-ness
    i relate to this a bit as I am on cusp of sagg and scorpio but the scorpio tames it down a good bit
    i do find sagg women to be usually sexy mentally and physically
    so ... i cant win ..... !
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    • Bixie
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      Re: are we heartbreakers?

      Mon, May 5, 2008 - 7:22 PM
      how long have you been together? maybe you two don't have a good foundation...

      too selfish ---> not really, we actually are generous
      too self indulgent ---> other signs also are
      incapable of fully embracing domesticity and couple-ness ---> on domesticity - yes, it's our nature... on couple-ness - define 'couple-ness'

      it's hard to win over sag women... even if we're losing there's a sudden wit that pops and so we still win~~
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      • Kristen
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        Re: are we heartbreakers?

        Mon, May 5, 2008 - 9:06 PM
        more often than not i have been the heartbreakee, and someone recently told me they didnt see a future in kids and marriage with me, which hurt because i would actually love to marry them and have kids with them...

        the last time someone wanted coupleness and domesticity with me was when i was 19. no at 19 im not trying to get married and have kids. plus, i was with that person from 16-19, and i wasnt the same person i was at 16, we were different...

        anyways..when im really into someone, i always want to commit, and they never do...and i dont get over them for years
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  • mYs.dRi
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    Re: are we heartbreakers?

    Mon, May 5, 2008 - 9:30 PM
    not intentionally or maliciously!

    things change and sag's ability to go with the flow makes it easier for us to move on. Plus i think it's easy to want to capture our firey goodness, and when someone realises that they can't, it's disappointing.

    okay, sometimes i'll let someone think they can catch me because the chase is fun!! but getting caught would be no fun for either of us!

    in more serious relations i can be so responsive and dynamic and at other times my heart is somewhere else and i can't offer myself....i suppose this can be confusing for others. seeing it from my moon or rising signs i'd be hurt by my inconsistency, but i really don't mean to break anyone's heart!

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    • Bixie
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      Re: are we heartbreakers?

      Mon, May 5, 2008 - 10:09 PM
      hear hear~~

      yuh, i think the 'heart breaking' isn't done intentionally~~ there are times that our too much friendliness is mistaken for flirting or something more by another people so often times they are misled hence 'breaking' their hearts...

      getting a sag's heart isn't that easy so knowing us really deeply is essential and it'll also serve everybody right, we can also know other people deeply at the same time... the intentions would then be clear and misunderstandings would be avoided~~
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  • gabby
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    Re: are we heartbreakers?

    Tue, May 6, 2008 - 4:18 PM
    I agree with what someone here said--the Sag flirtiness can definitely be misunderstood, which could probably break a heart of at least irritate one.

    I have Sag Sun combined with Venus in Scorpio---so I think I have the power to break hearts if I wanna... I can reel 'em in with my Scorpio intensity and then run off with my Saggy freedom. haha. I don't usually do that, though. I have lead people on in order to get the attention of others, though... :( which is bad, and likely a product of the sag/scorp combination in me.
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    • Kerra
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      Re: are we heartbreakers?

      Wed, May 7, 2008 - 4:00 PM
      i have too much water in my chart to be a heartbreaker. besides i'm not in the business of

      breaking hearts. intentional or unintentional.
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      • Mona
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        Re: are we heartbreakers?

        Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:16 AM
        I have much water in my chart too, and I have unintentionally broken a few. I blame Sag friendliness misinterpreted, and a Sun-Neptune conjunction compassion for anyone in need of a helping hand. ALSO very easily misinterpreted!
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        • synerGy
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          Re: are we heartbreakers?

          Thu, May 8, 2008 - 9:35 AM
          maybe y'all are just crazy bitches ?

          hehehe
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          • Mona
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            Re: are we heartbreakers?

            Thu, May 8, 2008 - 4:15 PM
            Maybe. But you love us anyway, dont'cha? ;)

            When I was very young and kinda naive and hadn't really learned "the rules of the game" yet, it was all too easy for me to suddenly find myself deep into a relationship with some guy whom I only really considered a friend, all because he placed way too much seriouness in my friendliness and open-mindedness towards him. There were times when I honestly didn't know what hit me. I was like: "Whoa! We're *together*?!? When did THAT happen?" Lol, kinda exaggerated that one, but it's not far from the truth. That's certainly how I felt. And it was a truly awkward and unpleasant situation to be in, for both parties. There was no way out except breaking a heart...
            ~ sigh ~
            Sags are just generally *friendly* people. Why must everyone take it all so seriously??
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