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Argh! I can't understand how Sadge and Leo are suppossed to match. I just can't stand them, their arrogance, their "needs".
And you always have to play your A game, i liked that at first, then it became a chore. And all the Leo women i know (even my mother, can't stand her most of the time) are pessimistic as hell, and i have enough scorpio in my chart to know what negative means, and they make me look optimistic lol.
Anyone else have bad experiences with Leo women? (i can stand the Leo males for some reason)
And you always have to play your A game, i liked that at first, then it became a chore. And all the Leo women i know (even my mother, can't stand her most of the time) are pessimistic as hell, and i have enough scorpio in my chart to know what negative means, and they make me look optimistic lol.
Anyone else have bad experiences with Leo women? (i can stand the Leo males for some reason)
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Thu, September 3, 2009 - 4:08 AMyeah ive known some egomaniac overly cocky leo femmes ... i'm not a fan ... -
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Thu, September 3, 2009 - 5:04 PMleos possess no sense of humor at all for you sadges. they will always be pulling arrows out of their lion's paw around you guys. too many of my sadge friends have been used and
abused by the cats. contrary to popular belief things will never last long past sex. good
fiery friends that's about it. they stand for so many things you guys do not. unless you get off
on feeding someone's ego at hourly intervals being told how to run your life being over
dramatic just to start a fight and get a rise out of you jealous of your time you spend away
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Fri, September 4, 2009 - 12:10 AM"Leo is entranced by optimistic, extroverted Sagittarius-and fun-loving Sagittarius is enchanted with Leo's sunny openness to life. Together they share a liking for freedom, adventure, and meeting new people. Both are passionate and fiery sexual types, and if anyone can keep Sagittarius faithful it's Leo. Leo's natural quality of leadership brings out what loyalty Sagittarius can give. Leo is very proud, but self-confident and expansive Sagittarius is perfectly happy to let Leo strut."
Just some random bullshit i picked off google, well i've never seen a leo faithfull for one, they always talk about the exes, fucking hate that. And in bed they are comparing you to exes as well, you can just feel that. And i'm fine with letting them strut, as long as i can trust them, wich i can't.
When a Sadge is alone with a lover, they are ALONE with their lover. Sure i think about my exes, but not when my partner is around, then the world is just her and me. Not for Leo woman though, i get clobberd with TMI at a hourly basis.
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Fri, September 4, 2009 - 8:59 AMMy mother is a Leo, and she tried being very controlling. It was always about he pain and her needs. She's a good woman but very hard to live with.
I dated a Leo...2 dates, that was it. He wanted me to make him my end all, be all. it freaked the hell out of me. I scuttled far, far, away.
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Sat, September 5, 2009 - 2:50 PMFire and fire burn each other out as far as I'm concerned. For the most part it works on
the surface within our element. A Leo woman is not the best match for a Sagittarius man.
What is it about them that keeps pulling you towards them Endy... -
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Sun, September 6, 2009 - 4:02 AMWell i haven't met many, but i recently found out that the girl i was heavily in love with had a leo rising and a leo venus.
But i'm more attracted to earth signs in general (the girl had a virgo sun), but they will have non of me ofcourse :P -
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Sun, September 6, 2009 - 4:05 AMDamn lack of edit buttons, i pressed submit to soon.
I was going to finish stating that i kept hearing about the wonderfull relationships leo's and sadge could have, so i kept faith wich was stupid.
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Sun, September 6, 2009 - 5:06 AMMutual admiration society perhaps? Some person in ancient times thinking we're
born of the same element in all likelihood there'd be a familiarity between us. I don't
have any real major problems with the lions. But I haven't dated one so I might be
coming from where your coming from if I had. Favorite lions in the whole world is my
brother and Snagglepuss : ) Do you have any planets in Leo? -
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Sun, September 6, 2009 - 5:28 AMNo, but i have a wierd ass chart though, Sun/Rising/mercury/saturn/uranus in Sadge, Moon/Mars/Pluto in scorpio and venus in Capricorn to kinda hide the fact that i'm super black and white. Altough i'm nowhere near the cliche sadge, personally i think the scorpio in me are the dominant planets.
Maybe i was attracted to them because i thought that i finally be myself in a relationship, yet it was worse with them than with other signs, i'm with a scorpio girl now, but i can't really be myself with her either to be honest, but at least she comes back when things become heated. -
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Sun, September 6, 2009 - 6:19 AMYou are quite the pickle Endy... With 5 major placements in Sagittarius I can see kinda
where the draw is to Leo. You might enjoy this it's an excerpt from a book I have.
Sagittarius sun-Venus Capricorn:
This guy can be a a nightmare or an utter saint. True, all men can. But it's more
pronounced in this sign. Good looks are inherent to this man. His charm is infectious
because he's so damn down-to-earth and modest. He'll tell you he's not a good dancer
then sweep you off your feet. He'll swear he can't cook, then prepare a sauteed-scallop
appetizer, rack of lamb with a dijon mustard sauce, and buttery mashed potatoes.
Flowery words of love is not his style, but you sense that he's a romantic at heart and truly
does love you. When he says he's in love, trust it. He doesn't say it if he doesn't mean it.
Problem is he's well aware of his place in the world. His moral sense forces him to choose carefully; who to settle down with. In other words, whether he's semifamous, or
simply very clost to his mother, he'll take others opinions to heart and it will influence his
decision to be with you.
No matter. Once he's made up his mind, he's in it for the long haul. Insecurity, neediness, and distrust on your part are the only things that will make him head for the hills. He wants
someone who is kind, together, sensible, sensitive, practical, grounded and the almost
regal in bearing. Vulgarity turns him off like lights at curfew in summer camp. Like other
Sag combos, he can turn to the darkside if he takes himself too seriously. It's important
that he have a sense of humor about himself. If he's mother instilled good values in him
you'll never lack for a good mate.
He can be difficult to get along with though. When something bothers him, he retreats into
his shell and it's like pulling teeth to get it out of him-painful, hard and messy. Also he
loves children because he tends to identify with purity and innocence. He never loses his
sense of awe and curiosity about the world-and is moved by nature and natural beauty,
fascinated by human behavior.
He honors his commitmets, his word is good as gold. He appreciates those who are loyal
to him and can get mean or belligerent if he feels wronged. Or just distand and cool, if he's
mature enough to walk away. Don't let his optimistic facade fool you. He can be witty and
cheerful, then end the conversation with some darkly cynical comment that will really make
you think. That's how he reels people in. It's not a trick, though. It's the way his always-
pondering mind works.
Because family is so important to them, many of these guys marry too young-and come to
terms with it later. Even when they have extramarital affars, they usually don't leave their
wives. And they make excellent fathers. Pick poison wisely.
What to expect as a boyfriend/husband:
He can be a good boyfriend/hubby if you don't piss him off, suffocate him, or ask too much
from him emotionally. He'll get there in his own time. If a woman has too many issues he
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Sun, September 6, 2009 - 7:54 AMThanks Eros, that's very kind. I loved the read, although it portray's me as brad pitt lol (he also has the Sadgesun/caprimoon combo) i wish i had his good looks lol, then i could attract a normal woman lol, or at least experiment wich type of woman i can work with.
The rest does sound like me, for beter and worse. For finding this, i could PM you a picture of me if you want, maybe it's not as bad as i think.
"He can be a good boyfriend/hubby if you don't piss him off, suffocate him, or ask too much
from him emotionally. He'll get there in his own time. If a woman has too many issues he
can't deal."
Damn my node in pisces lol:
"N. Node is in 28 Degrees Pisces.
You're attracted to others who need your assistance. You seem to go out of your way to form relationships with those who are weak, sick, injured, addicted or troubled in some way or other. At your best you can indeed provide the relief that others need. But at times you can be victimized by those who would prey on your good nature and take advantage of you. This can lead to all sorts of negative situations -- make sure that those you assist are truly worthy of your time, energy and commitment. A little enlightened self-protectiveness on your part can make your life work much, much smoother! "
Well shoot.... well it kinda reinforces the fact why i was so in love with that LeoRising/VirgoSun girl. To bad she is in a committed relationship, that's a line i won't cross. -
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Sun, September 6, 2009 - 7:55 AMCurses! I mean't : although it portray's me as brad pitt lol (he also has the Sadgesun/capriVENUS combo) i wish i had his good looks lol,
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Tue, September 8, 2009 - 2:43 PMlol Yeah that's right Brad Pitt is that combo. Ben Stiller and Brendan Fraser as well.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Brad's not everyone's cup of tea although it may
seem that way. Brad has dated some whack jobs good looks didn't keep him from that.
So don't be so hard on yourself. I'm interested in seeing a pic now(just as long it's not
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Tue, September 8, 2009 - 10:48 PMNo ofcourse not.
I will send one once i get home from work.
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Wed, September 9, 2009 - 1:15 PMwhat's up with your scorpio girl? have you dated the other fire signs? -
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Wed, September 9, 2009 - 1:57 PMShe is driving me nuts, but i can't shake her, i never met a girl who can take my dark energy like she can, but she is very offensive and very slow to forgive, i can't have that, i make mistakes and that's how i am.
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Wed, September 9, 2009 - 2:50 PMbut you of all people should get her with you having a heavy scorpio energy. the water girls
are a good place for you to date mix it up with elements that mirror and compliment yours.
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Thu, September 10, 2009 - 12:02 AMWell, it's out of my hands actually, what's going on is this: She had so many crappy relationships, and she likes me so much that she wants to give her all, not just a part with a mask to me, she doesn't want to make me into "another" boyfriend.
Wich is all fun and games, but i'm left with nothing at the moment, wich is killing my attention needs lol. She totally shut down, and yesterday i went the extra mile to get something out of her, took forever but she finally said what i said above, it sucked it drained me dry lol.
Also i had my first Sadge fuck up yesterday, she was saying something about her pants and how she gained a little weight, she is small and skinny so i thought oh shit, not the "fat" talk, so with my stupid ass sadge mouth i said "well that extra few pounds will make your breasts even hotter" in the hope that i can give it a positive twist, instead she wen't off on me and said some really nasty things that really hurt.
After hours and hours of apologies and trying to make sense to her that my intentions was to make her feel beter she said she doesn't think she's fat at all, we wen't through all that shit while she could have just said it.
And no sorry on her part what so ever, i can't take that.
And i have dated other fire signs, but only dated, two Aries, neither worked out. The first one kinda said the same as the scorpio, i wanted to help them so bad that i confronted them with their problems to much.
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Thu, September 10, 2009 - 4:46 AMyeah you pretty much have to just be an asshole, they dont respect being reasonable/friendly/mature and so on ... they will respect you more the more caveman like you are...sad but true in most cases
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Mon, September 14, 2009 - 8:28 AMNice guys don't finish last that's complete bullshit! And you don't have to be an asshole
to get a chick to be into you. If all your relationships seem to end up being with needy
pyscho maneaters then the common denominator is YOU! What are you putting out there
and doing to attract these bitches. And on the flipside of things there are nice girls out
there who feel the same way. Why do some girls love "bad boys"? If you ask me that shit
all started from the playground. A little boy liked a girl and how did he go about showing it
he picked on her and treated her basically like shit. Odd, you would think wow you like her
why not be nice to her. Fast forward years later and you got a chick with screwed up ideas
about boys. Some girls love a challenge thinking they can change-tame the guy, their
exciting and lets face it the sex is usually fucking otherworldly! lol
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Mon, September 14, 2009 - 8:48 AMI'm with Ryan water and earth girls are the ones you should be dating Endy.. The other
two elements wouldn't be able to handle let alone wanna deal with your "dark, black and
white energy" as you put it. I think that vibe is coming from your Scorpio-moon. Scorpio
moons tend to be shaken soda cans and Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde's emotional vampires.
Someone with a hell of a lot of patience, sensitivity, stability, a reassuring demeanor
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Mon, September 14, 2009 - 9:46 AMThe scorpio girl and me are through, apperantly getting some basic info from her was really eating her up.
And everything she said then, i already guessed, she also hated the fact that i could tell when she was lying.
Can't comment on the sex though, maybe for the good lol.
And i can try and date earth and water girls, but will they like me? I'm still a sag, and a obvious one at that, i'll find that out sooner or later.
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Mon, September 7, 2009 - 11:48 AMSo... if leos are negative, aries is egomaniacs, scorpio is possessive... who do you like? -
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Mon, September 7, 2009 - 1:22 PMI dunno really, i like earth signs i guess, but i don't think i'll match up good with them, i'm really explosive black and white.
But's it's all in the combinations of planets between two persons i guess, but that's what makes it even harder to swallow seeing as i have so many sadge planets, yet still can't get along with Lionesses.
I know astrology has to be taking with a grain of salt, but the red lines are there lol. I just want a girl that i can be myself with....the black and the white.
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Re: I'm so done with Leo women.
Mon, September 14, 2009 - 4:42 PMThe only knock I have against leos are that they are spoiled and have a sence of entitlement to being spoiled. They don´t give. They only take. And when you give, they take more. They rarely give back. But once in a while I find a leo that have the balance of giving and taking, and they are friends for life and worth keeping. But more often than not, they take and expect more.
You give love, attention, joy, grattitude and get back "yea...shure...thankswhatever...now give me more...can you do me a favor or twenty?"
After a while of getting nothing in return, you simply go "fuck´em" and find someone who can return something of value instead of mooching.
Yea... moochers, thats what too many of them are.
Lol, I could say the same about my own sign though.
In my own life... I´m just grateful for everything and I have a giving spirit. A giving makes life so much happier. When I adopted that way of living, my life got so much better even though it took me a while to sorta "get it"..
Sags seem to have this from the getgo. Wich is why I love ya´ll. Your free spirit make life so pleasant for everyone. People need to learn from sags and stop demanding and start lighten up and not take everything so damn serious. But nooo.... too many times you´re told to be serious, be grown up and read the news.... Be comfirmative, take societys bullshit rules and be grey like everyone else. I say shit, why be like that when you can be free, philosophical, fun, attractive ang a good friend =)
