i started dating a leo and have never been in a serious relationship with one before....how do leo's and sag's get along? and to make it more personal, I am a right-in-the-middle sag...born dec. 5th, and usually the main themes I read about sags not only generally apply to me, they tend to be right on.
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Re: sag and leo
Sat, March 11, 2006 - 7:17 AMPersonally, I love Leo men, I get along with them great! They are really funny, and like a ray of sunshine. But romantically? You'll have to get someone else's opinion. For me, the potential relationships never made it off the ground.
Something I've noticed with them, they always have to be somewhere, they're with you for half a minute and then they "must" go somewhere or do something, and "they'll be right back" - I don't know if it's me or can someone back me up on this?
-It's like you can never get their attention for a long period of time, I've noticed this with my guy friends. (Kinda funny really, but annoying too) -
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Sun, March 12, 2006 - 4:12 PMi can back that up...i have a penis but it seemed the same for me with two different leo girls i waas into. Always a billion other things to do for them so no time for me...the tiny moments i did get were stellar but it wasnt enough to build a lover relationship on. It truly wasnt even enough to build a simple friendship on. I also got this ...ummmm.... i have so much to tell you about how im feeling but i just cant let it out right now....sortof thing. basically i didnt get the openness that i put out and in return demand back from the people i connect with so i cut em off. I am perpetually dissapointed by the leo girls. never there when they should be. -
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Re: sag and leo
Mon, March 13, 2006 - 7:05 AMyeah... one of my good girrl griends is a leo,
and she is busy all the time. I woun´t want to be her boyfriend,
cause opn parties she would take off for hours dancing and
having her own great time., and exspect her lovers to do the same...
As friend it´s easy to deal with, as lover i don´t know.
She is pretty much in her own world, but full of love and light...
Leos have that beauty wich they ray.... wow... impresses me again and again...
I need to be close connected to my lover, even i need and give freedom space.
But to catch her is not easy....
Love & Light
AstridB
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Mon, March 13, 2006 - 12:08 PMweird b/c with the guy i am dating, i feel like i am the one that is more extroverted in the sense of wanting to do so much and spend time with so many different people, while he seems happier being with me, whether other people are involved or not. and that may also be b/c we haven't been dating all that long; maybe his attachment to me will wear off some the more we are together. he does however love to be the center of attention which i have heard is common for leos, and he does see some things as black or white, yes or no, while i am much more into hypothetical thinking and what i think about something today might not be the same tomorrow.
i feel like my biggest problem in relationships in general is finding that balance between "couple life" and our individual lives. it always seems like i find people that either want to be with me all of the time and make me feel guilty if i am not around, or people who carry on more with their own seperate lives than our life together( only when i dated another sag though). does anyone else have this problem?
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Re: sag and leo
Thu, November 2, 2006 - 10:28 AMHmmmmm.
I'm bringing this topic back up because this is soooo true.
Just got out of a year-plus relationship with a leo, and boy, was it a wild ride! Dude was never really attentive, always on the go, always out clubbing and aloof to the relationship.
Funny. But despite his behavior, he had the nerve to restirct me from doing any of the above. And said that I was too nice (typical of us Sags, no?) .... Ughh.
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Re: sag and leo
Fri, November 3, 2006 - 5:48 PMFight fire with fire, I always say. And fuck with fire too! Whee!
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Sat, November 18, 2006 - 9:40 AMWow, Lani, that's exactly my experience with the only Leo I ever dated! Crazy!
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Sun, March 12, 2006 - 2:41 AMcan only share my experience FemaleSag + MaleLeo (thing in the other way is a bit diffrence too)
I loved my male Leo, he was magic. But he needs his profile, mine did on paties the best cocktails
you can have, but he also thought in black and white - if somebody does anything he didn´t understand
he judged very fast...and he wanted me to be his perfect beatuful girlfriend... But I am not going to act
into made up accpectaions, I really have a problem with it...
He wanted me exclusive, if he coulf make whiches, to be a vergin, a spezial woman for him, with no past connections..
Oh well - I am NOT. I am 30, I do have a nummbers of Exboyfriends/Lovers, and I do not have a problem with it,
i love all my experences, that let me grow on my personalty, and I am not going to hide them just for FreedomLie....
But Leo & Sag are very connected, and i figured it can happen that you love somebody you not matching well,
cause of that fire connection.
I still love my leo, even i had to spit up, and he still doesnt understand it really, but he also doesn´t wanna hear
truth...
We are friends, and if you find a well matched Leo for you, you both can deal with each other extrovert behavour, not stealing the show of each other, I bet you can have a magic, strong, loving relationship.... I
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Re: sag and leo
Tue, March 21, 2006 - 5:43 PMA saggitarious / Leo union is one of the most powerful in the zodiac.
The most powerful being Pisces / Scorpio
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Thu, March 23, 2006 - 2:08 PMyeah yeah, but Leo's busy-ness is largely a put-on. I think. Highly conflated.
I either love Leos or hate 'em. I suppose that's the nature of the beast. Any thoughts?
You should also calculate in moons at the very least. For instance, I have a scorp moon... very dark undertones. Moon's can be a better indication, I think, than suns, b/c of the nature of relationships. Moon's more emotional, sun's more individual. -
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Thu, March 23, 2006 - 7:10 PMdamn leos...sorry...just comes out sometimes.
That's how I feel as well. It's a love/hate thing. I have been lied to sooooooooo many times by leos....sorry to the leos in here. :) Just my own personal experience.
The fire + fire thing is there for sure. The best sex of my life has been with other fire signs. Leos usually need too much mane stroking for my taste. Hyper sensitive and moody...again just my expereince. I dated a triple fire sign for a while. We would fight like cats and then mate. It was hot, but who can live like that for very long?!?
I am married to a leo/virgo cusp (august 23) scorpio rising aquarius moon.....................................challenging but worth it for sure!
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Tue, March 28, 2006 - 1:23 PMI just divorced a Leo I was married to for 18 years. In all fairness though. My Astro buddy Zane says that my ex was in the Leo Trifecta. Leo rising and all other major aspects in Leo. <shiver>.
I remarried to a Taurus and we're disgustingly happy. Now Scorpios.... ;-)
Tracey
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Sat, April 29, 2006 - 11:43 PMHey im a Leo born on 6 aug 1981,
I have just ended a really bad relationship with a Sags, he was moody, bitter, vindictive and lied all the time (im guessing it was the person not the sign though).
I would have to say my personalty can be quite quickly summarised as being close to the prince of wands in the tarot, Swiftness and strength but sometimes I act on impulse, often violent in the expression of an opion but i dont not necessarily hold the opion about which im so emphatic, I state a Vigorous proposition for the sake of stating it. Im very slow in making up my mind thoroughly on any subject once I have though nothing will change my mind, but I always see both sides of every question. I can be intensely noble and Generous, my courage is fanatically strong, and my endurance indefatigable. Im always fighting against the odds and winning.
Sorry I went on a rant there
As a Leo I'd say I can be moody sometimes and it depends on what provokes me, I like a good fight and always have, I guess I see nothing wrong with some conflict (after all if its worth having its worth fighting for) but on the whole I can be very fiery in terms of my temperament and I can be very romantic and passionate.
Oh I have been reading some of the other posts on here and i can see some of you say Leos always "have somewhere to be" LOL yeah I can understand that I guess it comes from our need to be chased our desire to be wanted (we are not needy but we want someone to pursue us), and the fact we often have our fingers in to many pies and so much to do :-).
What advice would you give a Leo guy who's looking for other Sags guys?
Have a good one everyone and thanks for reading :-)
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Sun, April 30, 2006 - 9:32 AMI've been with one Leo man, and you acurately describe him in your description of yourself. He beat me up, and was insanely jealous, though, so I hope you wouldn't go that far in your argumentative and stubborn ways.
Honestly, Saggies are usually so open-minded and freedom-loving, I can't see that being that stubborn is necessary with them. Just be respectful of their rights to do things their own way, as long as they aren't stepping on you, and I can't see a problem that can't be dealt with. Saggies generally like talking things through. -
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Mon, May 1, 2006 - 3:27 AMHey Teresa, im sorry to hear about your bad experance with your Ex
the closest I came to beating someone up was when my Ex told me he'd had been sleeping with other people because it made him feel better about himself, im not a violent person but im very passionate in my expression of an opion.
As for being respectful about them and their rights to do as they Will I totally agree we each have the right to do our wills but you must understand i have the right to express my opion about how that expression of will effects me.
Its never ok to hit but shouting is a diffrent matter and as you said Saggies generally like talking things through, i agree good communication is key to any relationship, and lies are poison to that relationship
Be safe Teresa
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Re: sag and leo
Mon, May 1, 2006 - 8:38 AMOh, I don't necessarily mean that they should have a right to do anything they please, even if it hurts; I was speaking more about being able to think a certain way. Saggies need freedom of expression, but certainly not the right to walk all over your needs!
I'm glad you don't let that stubbornnes turn violent. It just reminded me of the last time I had to deal with somone getting that mad at me. Sorry to bleed that on you!;)
And, don't worry; I'm quite safe with my sweet and lovely and free-thinking Aquarious! He makes me very happy :)
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Wed, May 3, 2006 - 1:56 PMI'm a bi Sag woman and have found Leos to be the best possible match for me. I need the intensity of the two fiery signs to really feel connected. I was with a Leo woman for nearly six years; the relationship was so good that we made a huge effort to remain friends and she is now my best friend in the world. I actually would make every guy I dated after her meet her to make sure they got along - partly to make sure he was truly okay with me being bi (casue they all say they are) and with us still being friends; partly because she and I are so much alike that if a guy can't get along with her, he won't get along for very long with me.
My current bf, for nearly 4 years, is a Leo too. We certainly had our ups and downs but it's been so worth it. Everything that you hear about Leos being self-centered is TRUE! But don't think this has to be a bad thing - it's just there, and whether it's good or bad depends on the person. This is kind of like how we dreamy, liberated Sags can sometimes be head-in-the-cloud flakes (not me, I'm never like that... ahem.)
My bf is the introverted one, so his true Leo-ness wasn't obvious right away. It took me months to realize that even when he's just at home watching TV, the world still revolves around him in a way that it just doesn't for me. But he's never a jerk, and he's rarely selfish; he loves me with all his heart and shows it in his unique Leo way. After these two experiences I can't imagine being involved with any other sign.
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Mon, May 8, 2006 - 5:35 PMDefinitely a Love/Hate type or relationship occured with THIS Sag male and Leo Female!!!
Wow, it was more firey-temperamental...I love you! Get Away!! Come Here...we are totally mixed up aren't we sort of situation!
Fun at times....A huge Mess the other times!
But....that was just one Leo Female....I would hate to "judge" all Leo Females from this one bad situation...
I am
Arcangel
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Re: sag and leo
Tue, August 29, 2006 - 11:14 PMBeen there done that, burned the t-shirt. <shiver>
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Wed, August 30, 2006 - 2:41 AMI must be the only person who can't stand them
they are arrogant, bossy, loud-mouthed, think they know best, like to dominate & control every situation & person,
they are all me, me, me people
I apologise to all those other Leos out there who I haven't met yet & who aren't like this (there must be at least one) -
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Re: sag and leo
Wed, August 30, 2006 - 12:11 PMYou must have met my ex-husband...you described him perfectly.
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Re: sag and leo
Wed, August 30, 2006 - 8:13 PMThere are good and afflicted people in each sign. But it's been my experience that the afflicted Leo's stand out a bit more than most other signs. Perhaps because Leo, in general, lives to stand out, to be the center of attention. In other words, a bad Leo is much more noticable than a his afflicted relatives in the other signs.
Let me give you my favorite Leo story.
Years ago, I worked at a job where my boss was a Leo woman. One day, she asked me to do her chart, and "Not pull any punches....tell me everything, no matter how bad it might be."
So, I did her chart, and she had me come in her office and close the door. I told her her abilities, but also where she had problems; I talked of her best traits, and her worst; what endeared her to other people, and what other people really disliked about her. When I was finished, her response was, "That was all very good, but aren't you going to tell me anything bad about me?"
There are some reall wonderful Leo people....Ian Anderson (from Jethro Tull), Antonio Banderas, Alex Haley, Dustin Hoffman, Robert Redford, Peter O'Toole, Martina McBride, Beatrix Potter and even funny men Dom Deluise and Steve Martin. And there are some "I'm really going to flaunt what God gave me" Leo people, like Mae West, Mick Jagger and Madonna, but many like them anyway.
It is the afflicted Leo's that stand out and give the rest of the sign a bad rep:
Benito Mussolini
Herbert Hoover
Fidel Castro
Napoleon Bonaparte
So if your experience is with a 'little dictator' type Leo, you can be sure he or she is one of the very afflicted ones.
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Tue, September 26, 2006 - 6:33 PMhehe im new to all this. im very much into all the star signs, as in believing on what they represent.
Yet my tale now comes. i had the great honour of having a relationship with a leo for almost half a year.
it was amazing, the most important thing for me (sag) is to be able to laugh. if she did that then im sold lol but ofcourse theres more to it. but still.
she was great amazing and perfect in every way.......plus the sex was possibly the best i have ever had v important when your a sag...cos lets face it we are gods. lol kidding
And yet......ive broken up with her. very wierdly to, a mate of mines father passed away and i sorta blew up when she said she cannot come because she has errands to run..........im not violent person i just blew up. didnt think about what i was saying.....but since then. magically bumped into her and talked things through. i doubt the relationship will happen again, but she is still one of my treasured friends that i adore...she doesnt understand why but ...she doesnt have to really :)
fact is.... Leo if he/she has realised or even bother to understand the needs of tha sag which is...sometimes we need you and othertimes not so much. it pretty much is I need space but i want you. type relationship. then all will be well.
if not..then run fool.
funny story...went out other nite, saw girl behind the bar..hardly spoke to her but i thought she seemed cool. had an attitude i liked about her going on aside from being really pretty to........turns out she thought i was cute....and i gave her my number....even more remarkibly...shes a Leo..... Leos and Sags have magic. itsa world fact. (seems like your in a movie)
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Fri, September 29, 2006 - 3:09 AMha it's funny the only girls (in past 3 years) who've been into me--random meetings, bars, the street, work--have been leos. now i just ask up front--are u a leo? lol. Generally i can tell--they are the stylish, dominant types usually like joking around. Sometimes their arrogance turns me off; also they can be very stubborn. Generally, I take off when that happens. -
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Wed, November 29, 2006 - 8:12 PMI am on the cusp of Leo and Cancer, and have been happily married to a Sag. for 4 years... For those of you who think Leos are too harsh, find one on a cusp might help smooth out a Leo's rough edges....
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Tue, December 5, 2006 - 6:03 PMI am also the sag and in a relationship with a " Leo" I will say let him shine under the spotlight at all times and treat him like a king. Then you may be suprised how well he will treat you in return. I think we are highly compatible most of times. Leo is usually compassionate and caring so as long as you respect his opinion. He will tolerate our sponstaneity from time to time.
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Wed, December 6, 2006 - 11:00 AMi know what people say about spoiling Leo's and I totally understand that they love to be in the spotlight....but it doesn't seem to go the other way. My man wants to be treated like a king, but i don't feel that I get the same treatment ever and honestly it's nice to have someone spoil you every now and then. I am pretty self-sufficient and don't feel that I ask for much, but it makes me much less willing to make any extra effort in general because i feel like he is acting like a spoiled brat....always wanting attention and not returning the favor.
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Thu, January 18, 2007 - 11:21 AMi've known this or that leo and feel my mars in leo gives me grief to no end. i feel like one of the sticky parts with me and leo energy (and my moon, rising in taurus, for that matter) is that it's really single minded and i feel sag is about pluralism. i find i think really well with pisces, and am attracted to geminis a lot, but get pissed off by their dualism. my world isn't black white, i don't use words like good evil. i find that my leos come to me with agendas, a clear way they see things or want to have things turn out and it kinda clashes with me.
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Wed, March 14, 2007 - 7:36 PMHi all, I met an amazing woman who is a Leo, sag rising and I happen to be a sag leo rising.
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Tue, April 3, 2007 - 3:33 AMerik, go for it!!! if you like her, just dive in there. if it doesn't work out, you will probably have learned a lot of wonderful things, and you will be all the richer for it. i think we meet people for a reason -because we have something to learn from them, and they from us.
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Wed, March 14, 2007 - 9:09 PMI am scorpio/sagg. cusp and have a couple good guy friends that're Leos but i've never ever had good results with a Leo femme ... just WAAAYYy too concerned with being noticed and being on the scene all the time ... Not particularly sensual in bed either ... More flash than anything else ...
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Fri, April 6, 2007 - 9:00 AMthanks Malin, much love to you my friend.
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Sun, June 22, 2008 - 11:08 PMbumping this up.... I happen to be a Leo in an eternal love affair with Sagittarians....
My best two relationships - both "open" and long distance, were with female archers.
Being born in the year of the Rat (my year this...) I'm working the manifestation magic in the direction of a Dragon lady... in or around NYC...
Just putting it out there.
Love you lot.
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Mon, June 23, 2008 - 12:38 PMthat's sweet. :)
I'm a Sag woman in an open relationship with a Leo man (but not long distance--we live together).
This is the first time I've seen this topic on here, although apparently it's an old one. Anyway, I agree with a lot of what was said above. My Leo is also busy doing his own thing.... we still haven't had a proper date and we've been together a year and a half. He has a taxi business, and he's the only driver, so he's always on call.
He is also very friendly and likes to be the center of attention. And he always thinks he's right. He'll lecture me about how I shouldn't do certain things that he does himself. :P None of this bothers me so much as his Mars inCancer tendencies, though... which makes him retreat and want to be alone when he's angry. It's difficult for me to understand...
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Tue, June 24, 2008 - 8:32 AMOMG this is so great! i'm a sagg and my fabulous boyfriend is a leo, with a sagg moon, we both have mars in gemini too,
we be gettin along oh-so-great!!
hope ya'll are too!! : )
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Thu, July 10, 2008 - 7:57 AMJules, have been married 3 times to Leo's... the sex is awsome, the living together is hell... get out when they lose interest or else buy her a house.
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Thu, July 10, 2008 - 8:19 AMjust dont ever get married or think you can be in a long term monogamous relationship if y ou are sagg...... -
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Sat, July 12, 2008 - 1:24 PMi for one am a SAG who can deal with a long term monogamous relationship. its the
intial fear of losing our "freedom" that we have to get over after that its all gravy. just don't
become boring/ predictable and possessive.
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Sun, July 13, 2008 - 5:24 PMhaha me too Kerra,
i am a Sagg who's been married and in sev long-term,monogamous relationships, in which i never cheated, so yes, it's def possible, : ) -
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Mon, July 14, 2008 - 1:06 PMKerra, I agree 100%. As long as the fellow don't become too possessive and/or boring, and/or restrictive of my freedom, I'll be loyal and faithful until the end! -
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