Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

topic posted Thu, August 23, 2007 - 7:42 PM by  backslash
hey all.. somewhat new to the tribe.. but a true Sagittarius.

Can anyone offer me some advice on trying to maintain a romantic relationship with a fellow archer?

I am a student of philosophy, religion, and science... pursuing great expansion of my mind. My boyfriend is an internationally touring musician (perfect for a Sun Sag / Sag Rising!)... and I get pretty jealous of his pursuit of adventure, and I think sometimes he desires the intellectual growth I have achieved. And I guess the worst part is that we can never manage to stay in the same geographical location for at least half of our relationship!

But we all know what it's like to be with another sag.. Couldn't get any better!

So what's it like for others in a sag/sag relationship? How do you manage the conflicting pursuits of freedom?
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backslash
SF Bay Area
  • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

    Fri, August 24, 2007 - 12:56 AM
    I once dated a woman born exactly the same day as me. It was awesome for about a week, but we are still friends.
    • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

      Sun, August 26, 2007 - 9:29 PM
      haha yeah.. i dated someone born the exact same date as me too! it was fantastic up until he just ran off... oh well. we're still friends too.
      • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

        Fri, November 2, 2007 - 9:32 AM
        HA!!!

        SO!!
        I am a "Normal" Sag afterall!!!
        I dated a Sag whose Birthday was on Dec 1st (Mine is the 4th) and things in the begining were great!! But when things got bad? They got REALLY bad and she infuriated the HELL outta me too!!!!
        Funny thing? I never thought it was possible...but...we are still friends too!! :)

        Hmmmmmmm
        Maybe it is the fact that WE sag's are a Fire sign....and Fire + Fire equals "Danger"?
        Perhaps we see to much of ourselves in the other person? (You know those supposed pesky little personality quirks we have? Stubborness, Intelligence, a Sense of wanting to be free all the time? LOL!!)
  • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

    Wed, December 19, 2007 - 7:28 AM
    This just in : DO NOT EVER DO IT
    The selfishness and self indulgent tendencies are a MAJOR conflict of interest ...
    2 slutty whores pretending to love one another
    • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

      Wed, December 19, 2007 - 10:13 AM
      I dated a fellow archer for a short while a few years ago and we made great friends! But when it came to having a relationship, there was little to no stability between us whatsoever, which at least for me became a bit issue eventually. Of course, in the end it is up to what one needs the most from our partners. If you're looking for excitement, hearty laughts, and lots of fun: go for it! If you're looking for stability, dependency and conventionality: Run!
      • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

        Thu, December 20, 2007 - 8:56 AM
        yes Mona I agree ... cannot depend on each other apparently ... very sad .
        • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

          Thu, December 20, 2007 - 9:59 AM
          7 year relationship with my daughter's father. he was unreliable, i couldn't depend on him, very selfish...but was fun, spontaneous, and made me laugh and we could talk for hours. in the end he was just not mature enough for a relationship which ultimately caused our breakup. would i do it again with another sag????? i don't think so.
          • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

            Thu, December 20, 2007 - 11:14 AM
            I dare to say it depends a bit on the rest of the chart as well. A Sag with Capricorn Mercury and/or Venus is likely to be slightly more dependable (unless other factors suggest differently.)

            Also, personal choice is another key factor for Sags. There are Sags one CAN depend on! However, if we should ever come to feel that we are being "pushed" down a path we didn't necessarily chose for ourselves - say because of external responsibility, which robs us from our frantic need for personal independence - we get claustrophobic in every sense of the word. That's when the inconsistency, independency, selfishness and what-not kicks in. Freedom, in all of its forms, is of massive importance for us. But given the freedom; we just might *choose* to do the right thing afterall. So there you go: you CAN depend on us! (...for the time being, anyway...)

            For me, I like to think that there's nothing I wouldn't do for the ones I love. But if they start placing heavy doses of obligations on my shoulders, they're just gonna have to expect me to fake an illness every now and again...NOT that it's a side of me I'm proud of - it's just that deep down, I'm a typical Sag afterall.
  • Re: Sag/Sag Romantic Relationship

    Fri, January 11, 2008 - 7:10 AM
    I would enjoy the space that you have for now, and keep the relationship open. Personally, almost every guy I've dated (and once married) has been a Sag, not by choice...just can't help who we're attracted to. The one thing I've found to be true is that "space" is definitely needed. As for dating a man with the same birthday...egads, just don't do it.

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