and/or having one fall in love.... anyone have any suggestions?
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, September 22, 2006 - 12:59 AMDon't let him know you really want him.
Play hard to get.
Keep the chase alive, because as soon as he realizes that he has you, he'll get bored and start looking over your shoulder at what might be behind door number two.
Stay happy. Don't let him know you are sad, depressed, or have anything other than fun in mind. Sag's are attracted to fun, happy people. Anything other than that will cause them to rethink their decision.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, September 22, 2006 - 11:55 AMI was going to say, just "be". They'll find you sooner or later. That's been my experience with Sag males but then again I'm a Sag myself, so perhaps it's a bit of our sameness that attracts. I would say that you have to be "cool" in a social setting, sort of in a group but on your own at the same time. I think of myself as a butterfly, I pause, here and there and oh what's over there? And mostly don't fence me in. I think of the guys that attract me most, and they're the ones that have something to do in their lives, but they like me most! Then if he's funny or playful that's a bonus, and if the mind is a bit of a philosophical thinker there is attraction. So try a bit of that to get your guy.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, September 22, 2006 - 2:08 PMAs a male Sag, I think a person who attracts me most will be the one who can just be oneself under any circumstances.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Sun, September 24, 2006 - 1:37 AMAs a female sag, who's had tons of sag partners, I would suggest just being yourself. If he's interested he'll look you up. If he's interested in who you're pretending to be he'll soon find the truth and boot you to the curb. Be witty, laugh and have fun, but Sag's are sesitive creatures so don't mess with their noggins. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Mon, September 25, 2006 - 10:26 AMHow to get pass the 'not talking' part? I'm seeing a sag and usually all he does is sit and look at me. Same on the phone. He just likes to sit on the phone and ask me the same questions. We are both busy and don't get to see each other more than once a week, so there should be stuff to talk about, but he doesn't. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Tue, September 26, 2006 - 1:02 AMA male Sag not talk!!! lol. Get him out of the house and off of the phone. Create new shared experiences; maybe that will give you both something to talk about. I wold take the staring as a compliment though; Sags like pretty people/things. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, September 29, 2006 - 2:59 AMhmm well as a guy i'd say i like aggressive upfront kinda women. stylish, but down to earth, ambitious but not domineering creative but not shy, chatty but not scatter brained, witty but not wicked, intellectual but not pretentious, aries but not cancer!
personally, i like someone who is gorgeous, well dressed but has an eccentric touch and strange career. I'm not into meeting the extended family nor do i like the beige box lifestyle of the 9-5er sheepess.
yep i'm gonna stare--but i'll keep talking all night if you'll let me!
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Sun, October 1, 2006 - 4:54 AMWell, thanks for clearing that up. Playtoy. Yeah, this guy seems to be really gone on my eyes. It's all he talks about. Men are weird. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Sun, October 1, 2006 - 10:59 AMIn my opinion, if the guy has nothing to say and is not asking you questions about yourself, it's because he doesn't want to know that much more. Get in the sack already. I knew a guy who pretty much talked about my ass, when I asked if he wanted to know anything else about me, he said: "I know all I need to know". Direct and honest. It was up to me to decide.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Thu, October 5, 2006 - 12:14 AMmaybe he's a shy sag? or maybe u got a really weird one--they do exist.
why don't u tell him it's bugging u?
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, October 6, 2006 - 10:43 PMBecause, like most Sagges, he's a little sensitive. Just as Muldoon states below, if I just randomly giggle on the phone, it's 'what's so funny??' like I'm laughing at him. Seriously, he calls just to sit on the phone with me and say stuff like I'm very pretty and really fun to cuddle with. Maybe I'm just out of practice with this whole thing. It is cool being with someone who gets me. I can be myself and he goes with the flow. He's Greek-American, too! Yummy!
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Wed, November 29, 2006 - 8:18 PMwith my sag. I have found that it's true that he prefers it when I an upbeat, and happy, but whe we first met met I pursued him, and he loved it....
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Sun, March 25, 2007 - 4:28 PMWell said! :)~
Yeah You have to play with a sag!
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Wed, June 6, 2007 - 6:20 PM
> As long as you follow those rules, he'll never leave and love you forever.
I'm afraid I couldn't agree less.
Games, rules, sloppy thinking, lack of mindfulness, honesty, and conscience are all the hugest turn-offs, to this male Sag anyway. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Thu, July 12, 2007 - 8:10 PM"Games, rules, sloppy thinking, lack of mindfulness, honesty, and conscience are all the hugest turn-offs, to this male Sag anyway."
SPOT ON!
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Tue, October 3, 2006 - 10:33 AMI don't mind the initial shyness or nervousness of first meets/dates etc, but it annoys me when women don't look at me and then laugh at the thoughts in their heads that they don't share. Don't share "everything", just try and include me in the conversation somehow. Glance at me if that's all you can manage, then i will know I'm not wasting my time.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Wed, October 4, 2006 - 2:42 AMall you need to do is touch and enough said -
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Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Mon, October 9, 2006 - 9:22 PMThis orginal post transpired in September...my question, is this still a concern?
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Mon, October 9, 2006 - 9:47 PMi have no idea, as I have never been with another sag, sorry -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Tue, October 10, 2006 - 8:43 AMIt wasn't that long ago. It is funny,tho. If anyone should be able to attract a Sag, it's another Sag. But we all need a little help sometimes. -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Wed, March 21, 2007 - 7:32 PMas soon as i find out a girl is a sag, there's something in me that says "ew she's your sister dude, don't do it." She can be the hottest girl at my job and have every other guy drooling on her and she repels me like a magnet. lol -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Wed, March 21, 2007 - 7:33 PMim a sag, which i utterly failed to mention in my last post... -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Thu, March 22, 2007 - 1:35 PMI think it was implied. I have a little of the same reaction. It feels like family when I run into a male Sag; sort of like we are related, but there usually is a pull, so if he's cute, as far as I'm concerned he can be in the Kissing Cousins category!
I actually made friends with a guy I worked at an old job with who was really cool and a Sag, and there was a pull, but he was just sooo young; at least 10 years younger. I couldn't do it. But now, it's a little uncomfortable for us to be around each other. He was a nice guy, too. With about a dozen girlfriends! -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Thu, March 22, 2007 - 1:39 PMi'm finding that female sagg's are fun fun fun ........ -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Thu, March 22, 2007 - 3:18 PMIntriguingly, I seem to hook up with Libras and Virgos. Never had a Sag woman do so much as look at me. I don't know why. -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Thu, March 22, 2007 - 3:24 PMSagg + Libra is supposed to be a great match fun and sex wise ...
I have a Libra ex and the sex WAS very pornographic I gotta say ...
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Mon, March 26, 2007 - 8:45 AMInteresting - I have never had the Sag-Sag lovin's... but if it's anything like the intellectual intercourse, I imagine it's far-reaching, experimental, passionate, and deep.
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Wed, June 6, 2007 - 6:22 PM> I have never had the Sag-Sag lovin's
I'm here to tell ya... if it's intensity you desire, you won't regret it. Just hold onto your hat. -
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Wed, June 6, 2007 - 7:12 PMAries - Sagg. lovin' is same way ... hold on to your hat and eat your wheaties ...
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Re: Rule of thumb when seducing a male sagittarius-catch while catch can
Fri, July 20, 2007 - 11:47 PMtoo bad for you! :*) I'm the opposite, so much fire with an opposite sex sag.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Mon, March 26, 2007 - 11:01 AMjust offer your nude willing body for sex.
that's the most common sense ....
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Thu, March 29, 2007 - 2:06 AMGive him some "buttons" to push. Make certain that you ract to those buttons every time he pushes them. And when he finds the negative buttons, be for warned... he will want to push those as well. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Tue, June 5, 2007 - 7:51 PMto be honest.. Im seeing my second Sag man in a row (Im a scorp) and Im having De Ja Vu, and Im finding it pretty frustrating (again). I feel like Im going out with the Tasmanian Devil so pre-occupied with his own stuff, never sitting still, or talking.. and I just feel like Im in the middle of this whirl wind.. but actually not really participating in the relationship.. trying my hardest to get his attention for longer than a split second seems impossible.. well outside the bedroom anyway. Sure the sex is amazing but I would like to think that I am more interesting than just a pussy. Im not sure how to do this, because I need to feel like for at least some of the time, he is interested in what I want to do, my friends etc but in the five months we have been seeing each other, I dont feel like that has happened. Im really deliberating whether I can do this again. Any advice? -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Tue, June 5, 2007 - 8:10 PMyes you are surely more than just a pussy ... I can see that .... a sharp mind and all ... -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Tue, June 5, 2007 - 9:13 PMyes but words are just words. Im looking for meaningful gestures. -
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Tue, June 5, 2007 - 10:23 PM*makes meaningful gestures*
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Tue, June 5, 2007 - 10:41 PMso flipant - c just what Im talking about. Poke-able. Ha!
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Wed, June 6, 2007 - 6:17 PM> yes but words are just words. Im looking for meaningful gestures.
I'm not sure that what you're describing is characteristically Sag. Half my chart is in Sag, and I have the opposite problem... I"m interested in *everything*.. and as a result have to be careful not to get too sucked into someone else's agenda.
Do you know what his asendant and moon signs are?
I will say this... once we're on a mission, all else can be relegated to the category of distractions. But damn, if he really likes you, it shouldn't be too hard to gain his attention.
Now gestures on the other hand... no use for them. Either commit to the task at hand, or do something else. Why waste time on halfway measures, which is what gestures seem to be... don't actually DO it... just show that you're *interested* in doing it, or that you value it even though you aren't taking time or attention for it. That just offends my Sag sensibilities. :)
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, June 15, 2007 - 1:36 AM"trying my hardest to get his attention for longer than a split second seems impossible.. well outside the bedroom anyway."
Yep. We are interested in you outside of the bedroom, for more than your sex. We're interested in EVERYTHING, though. ALL THE TIME. If you think it's frustrating to you, imagine what's going on in our active little brains. It seems that I hear the same problem from many of my friends about me. The problem, as I see it from inside my skull is, no one has ever taught me the value of the word "no". So... I try and give everything to all my people all the time. It's not that he doesn't give you all the attention that you need, which is probably the case as well... It's more that he hasn't figured out how to add more hours into the day, or to say no to all the other people who are wondering how to get a Sagg to calm down into one subject for more than an hour.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Wed, June 6, 2007 - 6:24 PM> anyone have any suggestions?
Have you tried a shy smile ? Honestly, unless he's intimidated by you, it shouldn't take much. :-) -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Thu, June 7, 2007 - 7:29 AMHonesty is always the best policy. If you hide any thing he will know and resent it, if he doesnt like you for who you realy are give up. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Thu, June 7, 2007 - 4:34 PMSorry gestures is so no the right word I was looking for, I think you know what I mean though. I am utterly honest... and I think maybe he is a little intimidated by my scorp intensity. I think more often than not his whirlwind of action is him on a mission to impress me, but he doesnt need to. I am already impressed.. but I just want him to stop and get to know me - because I am intelligent, cute, fun, eccentric, creative and sexy I am. Ha ha. And I want to get to know him... but he is such a butterfly. Guess I just need to be patient. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, June 15, 2007 - 1:39 AMA patient scorpio? Only when devising the revenge for not getting what they need. *grin*
As long as you both rely on your mutual patience and humor (which should be interesting) you'll be okay. Good luck.
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Thu, June 14, 2007 - 2:27 PMMake certain you have buttons to press that get you riled up. Sags love to push buttons and get reactions. It makes us feel noticed and powerful... especially in the sex department. -
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Re: tips on seducing a male sagittarius
Fri, June 15, 2007 - 7:39 PMyes well i have lots of buttons to push and he i
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