Really? you think he is playing games? I am too blind to see it.
I don't like to make the promise that I can't do. It is funny that he always says something and backtracks. For example, he is the one who said we must see each other every Sat. and later he changed, he said we shouldn't make it a routine. He is in total control of the relationship because he always makes promises and I always grow expection from his promises. I am sure he really meant it when he said he wanted to meet every sat. but how come I wouldn't say things like this. I wouldn't promise things that I am not sure of. I don't understand why people give other people expectation when they might not be able to meet this expectation. It is just so irresponsible. I think I was born with the ability of not making any promise at all.

It is just worse to make promise when someone has trusted you deeply.

I can't change his momentary and fleeting desire. When he said I am the most important person in his life so far, I can't make him change his mind when one day he decides that I am not any more, and I don't want to force him to do things against his will. When he said he wanted to chat with me everyday, and later changed his mind, I can't force him to talk to me everyday. Maybe at that time, he truely felt that he will love me forever, he truely wanted me to cherish him forever, he truely wanted me to be with him forever, and he didn't know he will change later.
It is so hateful that people do this all the time.
How do you sagittarians take promises? When your partners can't keep their promises, do u get upset? Or do u take it lightly?

The next time when he makes promise or suggests anything that will give me expectation, I will tell him that I won't trust him or believe any more.

Sorry for letting me vent. lol.......