I agree with Sweeny. If you want him to chase you, let him know the chase is on, but let him catch you now and again, too. We're like cats that way - if you never let the cat catch the fuzzy thing on the end of the stick, it'll get bored and stop.

It might seem like we're dumb, too; that you need to club us over the head to get things going, but we like the loud and garish in life. We can appreciate subtlety, but it's not something that occurs to us.
I'm personally a big fan of very obvious flirting. :)

TalkTalkTalk.... with liquor lube of course.... and the commimentment thing can really vary... u havent aid just HOW much u want with this WTF dude..., but depending on age, maturity and current place in life..... and how ell u guys gel.... u could DEF hae more.......

BR VERY ATTENTIVE TO HIS SIGNALS............. while Bob is rite about us sometimes being very attracted to the loud n garish- OFTEN if i female ( i go both ways..., so i may have an extra perspective...) comes on TOOOO strong- esp if it seems outta the blue- it can have the exact opposite effect......
just be friendly, affectionate...-esp if ur alone...... say something like-- 'u know it was really kinda cool the nite i slept in ur bed... but u seem a lil' distant from me since.....whats up....?'

good luck again